Pearl motivational speaker

03/11/2023

Best Marriage Advice EVER...✍🏾

1. Choose to love each other, even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

2. Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling. When possible, try to keep your phone off when you're together with your spouse.

3. Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the "currency of relationships," so consistently invest time into your marriage.

4. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage. Remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.

5. Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy. And even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.

6. In every argument, remember that there won't be a "winner" and a "loser." You're partners in everything so you'll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.

7. Realize that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It's usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.

8. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than s*x to build a strong marriage, but it's nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. Remember that marriage isn't 50/50— divorce is 50/50. Marriage has to be 100/100. It's not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they've got.

10. Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you've given your best to everyone else.

11. Learn from other people, but don't feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else's. God's plan for your life is masterfully unique.

12. Don't put your marriage on hold while you're raising your kids or else you'll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of

03/11/2023

NAKED TRUTH ABOUT LIFE😭😭😭

1. He drops you off and drives back to his wife and kids.

2. He throws away used Condoms as he goes home.

3. He buys sweets to clean your fragrance no matter how expensive it can be

4. He forgives himself for cheating as he is driving to the mother of his Children.

4 He first takes shower to remove your unwanted sweats.

5. He then convinces him self that he can't leave his Wife and Children because of you.

6. He hugs her and ask his children about education.

7. He eats food cooked by his wife not two pieces of KFC he bought for you.

8. After eating he relax on the couch, and they both go to the bedroom.

9. They discuss about the future while she is lying on his chest.

10. Then they make love (Not s*x which he had with you).

11. He doesn't take bath after it because he is used to that Aroma of his Wife.

12. She continues lying on his chest while discussing their investment, policies and planning their Anniversary.

13. And you are alone struggling with s*x because he just did a fast.

14. He gave you 100k and your Mother is boasting that she has a discplined daughter not knowing that you are slowly turning to the resting zone of a bored Husband of some one.

My sister it is not too late, know your values and have goals that Man will never take you anywhere. Find your own Man and God will surely bless you.

Thanks for Reading!!

09/09/2023

Dear Bachelor

4 ASPECTS OF A LADY YOU SHOULD NOT TRY TO FORCEFULLY CHANGE.

1) HER NATURE

There are different type of ladies out there, chatty ones, quiet ones, extroverts, introverts, fashinoistas, etc.

Each unique and beautiful in her own way.

Your Job isn't to pick any lady and then change her into the type of person you like, your job is to pick a lady that is already the way you like them to be, or even if she isn't, you can accept her that way, that's the first Test of Love and compatibility..

Accepting someone the way they are, not the way they can be. Relationship isn't a Project.

2) HER PASSION

Another aspect of a lady you shouldn't temper with in the name of a Relationship is a lady's Passions, Hobbies.

The things that give her Satisfaction and Fulfillment.

Maybe she loves Art, or Music, or Writing, Outings, you are not to come into her life and shut that aspect of her down. You'll take away things that give her Joy.

In fact you are to encourage her to pursue her dreams and passions..
Not the other way round.

3) HER DRESSING

Many couple arguments start from this.

You knew you don't like ladies that wear trousers and apply make up, you left all the ladies that don't wear trousers and went to ask out one who does, after 4 months of dating, you start telling her she should stop wearing trousers and no more make up with plenty other rules. As as what na?

Any lady you like, look at the way she dresses currently, if you are not okay with it, let her be.

If you really must date her, and you think her dressing needs to change, take it slow and steady.

Don't just come and start barking orders, that's not going to go down well with her, you'll end up calling her stubborn and proud, when she's not..

After all you saw her dressing that way before you came.

Let her change in dressing come from her..

Let it be Her decision, and till that happens, love her laidat, or leave her alone laidat.

4) HER LOOKS

Sir, don't force a lady into ulcer becaus

07/09/2023

You broke her heart💔
She said it's fine with tears😭
She didn't keep grudges with you😢
You still talk and chart
But she's hurt💔
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After 2 months you told her u have a new girlfriend, she said it's fine😢

Do you know the feelings of her pain?
She changed towards her friends😩

She changed at home
Her mom complained about her
She cries at night but people didn't see her pain 😔

She tried to move on but memories kept holding her back 😢💔
She started drinking to get ur thoughts off her broken heart💔

You know you changed her ways
She couldn't be strong, you made her weak😢

If you know you don't trust yourself enough plssss 🙏🙏
Don't ask a girl out
Female heart 💝 is fragile and needs to be treated with care and respect..
Please I beg of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

13/05/2023

Relationship 👫👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩is One things that can mess up your life😭😰 💔 be careful. pray 🤲🤲be sensible 😎when falling in love 💯💯 love can turn a bright future 📗📘to a miserable life ❌🚷. It's painful 💔😈to know that the person you love😍 is actually in love 😍with someone else,

It's even more painful 💔 to fall in love😍😍 with a person who has another things in mind 😈every relationship is a game of risk 😲no one can say which is really going to work 🙄 some relationship mistakes🥲can cause a life time regret 😵😵

Search a good heart 💜💙 and not a beautiful face 🧑‍🦰 beautiful thing are not always good ⛔ but good thing are always beautiful💯.age and pressure is never a reason to date or marry 👫👫 if you a single 👲 sometimes means God ☝️☝️is putting you on reserve 👉👉 for the person you deserve ....

Don't allow the rade of marriage this day's make you feel Left out 🥲 not all marriage 💍👩‍❤️‍👨💍 are normall❌ some are su***de missions 🥲❌ while some marriage are motivated by s*xual urge and money greed. No love in it ❌be careful who you date.. the heart of a man is only known by his God 🙏🤔🤔🤔🧐🧐
Forget face, shape,fame, qualifications,or money, all this thing become irrelevant in just 5 years in to the marriage.🥲❌ and never you date someone you know definitely know you can't marry.
Pearl word's

11/04/2023

Relationship 👫👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩is One things that can mess up your life😭😰 💔 be careful. pray 🤲🤲be sensible 😎when falling in love 💯💯 love can turn a bright future 📗📘to a miserable life ❌🚷. It's painful 💔😈to know that the person you love😍 is actually in love 😍with someone else,

It's even more painful 💔 to fall in love😍😍 with a person who has another things in mind 😈every relationship is a game of risk 😲no one can say which is really going to work 🙄 some relationship mistakes🥲can cause a life time regret 😵😵

Search a good heart 💜💙 and not a beautiful face 🧑‍🦰 beautiful thing are not always good ⛔ but good thing are always beautiful💯.age and pressure is never a reason to date or marry 👫👫 if you a single 👲 sometimes means God ☝️☝️is putting you on reserve 👉👉 for the person you deserve ....

Don't allow the rade of marriage this day's make you feel Left out 🥲 not all marriage 💍👩‍❤️‍👨💍 are normall❌ some are su***de missions 🥲❌ while some marriage are motivated by s*xual urge and money greed. No love in it ❌be careful who you date.. the heart of a man is only known by his God 🙏🤔🤔🤔🧐🧐
Forget face, shape,fame, qualifications,or money, all this thing become irrelevant in just 5 years in to the marriage.🥲❌ and never you date someone you know definitely know you can't marry.

06/04/2023

A husband that intertain
side chick and hurt a wife won't see heaven forsure.

04/04/2023

Every time "Who will sub for me, who will take me out"
Must they know your boyfriend is Useless? 😎

03/04/2023

Successful people have two things on their face smile and silence. Smile to solve problem silence to avoid problem

03/04/2023

Never be angry with someone who leaked ur secret
If secret is easy to keep u would have kept it to urself 🙌
Good morning world 🥰

02/04/2023