17/05/2026
hi, it’s me again.
at this point, i genuinely don’t know if the both of them really don’t see anything wrong with their actions or if they just choose to ignore how disrespectful everything already looks. kasi let’s be serious for a second — they’re old enough to understand what boundaries are and how certain dynamics can make someone uncomfortable, especially when the issue has already been communicated clearly.
which is why it’s honestly so strange how they still continue moving the same way while acting like the discomfort being caused is somehow unreasonable. if multiple people can already see the issue from the outside, then obviously hindi na lang ito simpleng “wala lang.” sometimes, people get way too comfortable crossing lines that they stop recognizing when they’re already disrespecting someone else’s relationship or their own.
medyo disappointing lang how some people from a field centered around guidance, respect, and proper conduct still manage to act clueless when it comes to basic boundaries and accountability.
and for the girlfriend, this will be my last entry about this whole situation. there’s only so much concern someone can give before mapagod din. people eventually accept the kind of treatment they think they deserve, even when others are already trying to quietly check on them and make sure they’re okay. i guess some messages are better left unread, and some concerns are better left unsaid after a while.
—the one with secondhand disappointment