03/10/2025
This is your reminder to let go of what isn’t working for you.
Today.
To lean into the things which nourish and heal you.
To embrace the people who nourish you.
To make more room for the ones who listen to you without getting defensive or cut you off in the middle of your thought to talk about themselves.
Here’s to holding more space for the ones who ask you how your day went, and who put aside their concerns to celebrate you, and your wins. Despite their own emotional dysregulation, because they know their emotional dysregulation is about them…. and not you.
Here’s to finding the people in your life that say yes. Who don’t criticize or question your every move, who get excited for you when you are on the move. Who are excited for your growth. Even when it means you are growing without them.
You deserve to find a partner (romantic or otherwise) who wants to try and meet your needs, to whom you can turn to and say, “I need more than this,” and they smile, listen and try to do better.
Who don’t get mad at you or defensive when you speak your truth.
Who don’t think they know what you need, but instead ask you what it is that you need.
Who make you feel seen and safe so you don’t have to fake it, whether it be or***ms, joy, pleasure or happiness.
Who want to heal themselves, as much as you want to heal you.
You deserve to NOT settle for crumbs.
Here’s to finding the ones who care about their own healing just as much as they care about yours. (And don’t blame you for their unhealed parts. Because we all are responsible for our own healing.)
Here’s to finding the ones that don’t blame you for their unhealed parts. It can be a journey to learn you are not responsible for their healing. And, for them to learn to stop being a victim.
Here’s to finding the ones who are less concerned about winning the fight, and more interested in seeing your light. 🌟
Here’s to letting go of those who zap your energy, who constantly say no, and who barely give you what you need.
Here’s to saying hello to those who say yes to your excitement, your desire for growth, who embrace your passion. 💫
Here’s to saying goodbye to the you, that is scared to ask for what you want who gives and gives so much of herself that her cup is empty.
Say goodbye to that former you, today.✨
Here is to taking up so much space that your light can be seen from outer space.🪐
