05/04/2022
Parenting is not a title but a responsibility.
The most expensive and tasky job in the whole wide world is parenting. It involves a lot of time,energy, stress,money,patience, communication, experience from all side,verbal or mental reasoning etc.parenting is more than putting to bed,it is beyond what your mind can comprehend .it is not a part time job but a full time job for people who has a teachable spirit. This means ready to learn, unlearn and relearn.
It is not a thing of university degree or professorship,if is by certificate, then it becomes a work away.
Parenting is not a one man business .....it involves all,from the religious sphere, academic sphere, community and family.
It is a question of how ready are you as a father or mother.
It is an institution that you will never graduate because philosophy keeps changing and a proposed theory for one fails to work for another.
Parenting is a function of maximum love implementation and readiness to expect anything and everything. You need passion and patience at every stage.
Reasons why it was never promised to be easy:- it is transitional, from one stage to another. Just like vehicle keeps picking and dropping passengers from one bus stop to the other.
We have six stages of parenting
1. Image - making.
2.Nurturing.
3.Authoritative
4.interpretative.
5.interdependent.
6.departure.