04/10/2024
MESSAGE TO STUDENT NURSES & OTHERS IN TERTIARY INSTITUTIONS...
Few hours ago, I was at a particular School of Nursing...
I heard one of the Lecturers advising his students that 'make sure you don't graduate until you have a serious person who is willing to marry you when you graduate'
He proceeded that 'its not a crime to marry as a student'
I became interested in the advice and hang around to tap from what he was saying...
He was telling his students that this is his 19th year as a Registered Nurse and some of his female course mates are not yet married...
He also said one of his female course mate whom one of their male course mate wanted to marry is presently working in a particular hospital he mentioned...
She looked down on him because they were course mates...
She even said she can't wait for him to start working and gather money for marriage before she marry him...
It's 19 good years today after graduation as a Registered Nurse and she's still not married...
The course mate that wanted to marry her is now married with 5 children...
He also mentioned two of his colleagues who married their course mates and are living happily...
NOTE FROM ME:
Don't be deceived by material things, you can be in a relationship that will lead to marriage after graduation with your course mate if there is care & love...
You can even get a better job before him, that's not a problem if you truly love one another...
As a Female student, your parents should know who you are keeping relationship with and it should be formal...
As a male student, try to make it formal so that you don't tell her tomorrow that your parents already got you a lady they want you to marry...
As a Female student, if he is not ready to make it formal, don't waste your time with him... He is covering your good chances...
As a Male student, if she doesn't want you to make it formal, she have no interest in marrying you... Look for someone better....
If you think you can play smart, just take a look at the history of those before you that thought they were smart...
Don't think it's impossible, I myself met my wife in the University and today we are married for over a decade...
She's my Girlfriend, a Friend, a Sister, a Soulmate and above all my Beloved wife...
A WORD IS SAID TO BE ENOUGH FOR THE WISE...👂The person you are looking down onto today because you are a Nurse can be somewhere you don't expect tomorrow.May Allah choose us the best life partner
Ameen Ya Allahu
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