06/19/2025
We are closing the week with two more rememberances of Dr. Davis. Today’s tribute comes from Beverly Matiko.
To imagine life without Delmer is odd and unfathomable in so many ways. I am more accustomed to watching decline and then the inevitable end with loved ones. With Delmer there was, in my estimation, no hint of decline. At our last few get-togethers, he was his usual self—witty, wry, observant, engaged, asking seemingly innocent questions that somehow resulted in you saying more than you probably would have otherwise. He was like a Columbo in this respect, though decidedly more polite and better dressed.
Our faith tradition urges us from childhood to “be more like Jesus.” In his unshowy, unassuming yet quietly high-achieving way, I think Delmer may have set the bar even higher for himself. He was like the Trinity to many of us. He was a Father figure. You always felt he wanted the best for you, and was there to help you discern what that might be and just how to go about achieving it. There was a sense of the eternal about him. If you knew him, you felt you had always known him, and that he would always be there, too. He was a naturally-born Teacher, like Christ. You were never in his presence without learning something significant and thought-provoking. He gathered disciples around him effortlessly, both in and out of the classroom, and those disciples were the most motley of crews. What Delmer taught, others did their best to also teach. His words stayed with you. They were ponder- and replay-worthy. And, perhaps most notably, Delmer was like the Holy Spirit. You may not see him, but if you had made his acquaintance there was an Abiding Presence there. There was a “Delmer Aura” that stayed with you and guided you. His family had Australian shepherds for a time. Maybe this was a preferred breed because Delmer himself was like a spiritual Australian shepherd, though definitely the least aggressive of the litter. Whether you were a lone sheep or part of a flock, to know Delmer was to come to a sense that in skillful, efficient, and amazing ways, this down to earth, sweet Spirit, often without you realizing it, had been guiding you gently home all along.