04/20/2018
Many people study abroad searching for something bigger in their lives. They may not exactly know what that “something” is, whether it’s adventure, happiness, or a change. Nevertheless, they are searching. Humans tend to forget the present, the here and now that we have been waiting for and what will soon become the memories we miss. Recently, my program and I went to a Marae (a meeting place for Māori people, indigenous people of New Zealand). When we first came to the Marae, I felt rigid and nervous because we were entering onto a different culture’s land and you feel scared to screw things up. Looking back now, I laugh at myself because I always get anxious about the silliest things. The Marae we went to was on such a beautiful plot of land that overlooked the ocean. There is a sense of community and love all over the Marae, and they feed you the best food. My program has become my family here, so sharing this experience with them was rewarding and made me feel even closer to them than I already am. We spent hours at this Marae learning Māori games, haka (Maori dance), aspects of the culture, playing mafia, laughing till the wee hours of the morning and talking about our lives here and back at home. It reminded me of how much I have grown and how far I have come. It made me stop and realize how much I suddenly could not believe how quickly I had adjusted to this foreign place with different people (and opposite seasons!) and realized how much I am going to miss my family here. I feel so at home now that my real home feels weird. I was so exhausted and emotionally fragile after this time at the Marae that I could not stop crying at the fact that I will eventually have to go home and leave this place that I have built out of nothing into something extraordinary. My biggest adventure here has not been the mountains I have climbed or the glacial waters I have swam in, but finding out who I am, and if finding out who you are isn’t the biggest adventure out there, than I don’t know what is. - Aimee Stonelake '19, psychology major studying in Dunedin, New Zealand for the spring 2018 semester