01/06/2023
Here are 7 mistakes and lessons we wish every parent knew:
1. RELYING SOLELY ON SAT SCORES
College admissions have changed - significantly. And it's no longer enough to get straight A's and a high GPA. There's a more holistic approach where colleges look at the whole student, their passions, uniqueness, and what makes them a good fit for their college.
2. THINKING STRAIGHT A's WILL STAND OUT
Remember that admission counselors are human. Imagine flipping through 1000s of student essays... They're all straight A's, they're all taking the same subjects, they're all saying the exact same thing... How do you expect to stand out? It's far better to share stories that reflect individual talent rather than mainstream repetition.
Even more so when many colleges are electing to have standardized test-optional admissions policies. This makes the personal essay a critically important component of the application.
3. LEAVING APPLICATION UNTIL 12TH GRADE
We encourage students to start as early as 6th grade. We can recognize talent and passion early. We can then facilitate placement in real-life projects that build a portfolio. This way, when your student graduates, they are ahead of their peers - with real-world experience and projects to showcase.
4. CHOOSING MAINSTREAM SUBJECTS RATHER THAN RECOGNIZING PASSIONS
What makes a student stand out? Colleges no longer want 'cookie-cutter' applicants. They are looking for creativity, something 'outside-the-box', perhaps even eccentric. Students need to showcase what they can achieve at a top ivy league college.
5. NOT GETTING REAL-WORLD EXPERIENCE
Think about how a student can highlight their difference. Is there a local competition they can enter? Is there a project they can volunteer in? Can they build or create a real-life application in their field of interest? It is these types of projects that capture the attention of a College Admissions Officers. Something that makes them stop and think, "Wow! This student has really gone above and beyond to show what they are capable of achieving. This student would be a real asset to our college."
6. BUILDING A "VANILLA" EXTRACURRICULAR PROFILE
It's important to "zag when others zig." Students need to choose extracurricular activities that are relevant to the major they’re pursuing rather than the common mainstream options like music, sports, clubs, and volunteering.
7. LISTENING TO PARENTS AND FRIENDS RATHER THAN INSIDER EXPERTS
It's sometimes more confusing and frustrating listening to others who “think they know” rather than focusing on listening to those who 'actually know'.