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11/02/2022

07/28/2022

Important to keep in mind that kids are always watching and learning from us!
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05/05/2022

02/03/2022

Excellent tips in this list!

10/22/2021

Squid Game, the gruesomely violent South Korean series that’s become a Netflix megahit, is clearly not appropriate for children. But that isn’t stopping many kids from being exposed to it.

Teenagers are bingeing episodes of the show in which characters compete to the death in a series of games. Younger kids have been spotted playing copycat games on the playground.

It’s notoriously difficult to keep kids from seeing adult shows that explode the way this one has. Kids hear about something that sounds exciting and feel left out or uncool if they haven't seen it. And Squid Game is all over TikTok and YouTube, not to speak of show-themed games on Fortnite and Roblox.

Parents are struggling with how to respond to younger kids who are begging to watch it. Should you watch it with them? And is it okay for teenagers to watch?

Read our advice for parents of younger kids and teens - https://childmind.org/blog/incredibly-popular-super-violent-what-parents-need-to-know-about-kids-and-squid-game/

06/20/2021

Nurturing a child's resilience helps them to bounce back when they are faced with adversity.

Parents and caregivers can help build their resiliency by creating a strong support system affirming their importance and value to the family. Providing them with tasks such as volunteering or taking care of a pet will allow them to feel important and relied on. Teach them emotions and let them see your failures, and the response you take to overcome failure.

Visit the link in our bio to view our pre-recorded online courses, and check out this one specifically - "Making of the Resilient Child"!

06/16/2021

Toxic stress associated with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) affects brain development and impairs decision making, impulse control, and resistance to disease.
You can do something about it. Visit www.sccease.org

06/14/2021

When your child is struggling, how do you respond?

You may be tempted to put a Band-Aid on the situation, but well-meaning statements like "Don't be upset" or "Cheer up!" are often counterproductive and can make your child feel alone or ashamed.

Instead, try empathizing with your young one by stepping into their world. Relate to them and validate their emotions. This could sound like "I'm sorry you're feeling discouraged. I remember feeling the same way when I was your age. Tell me more about this."

Empathy leads to empowerment. When your child knows you hear and understand them, they're more likely to communicate with you. Your relationship will be enriched.

Model emotional intelligence and help your young one through life's ups and downs by starting Emotion Coaching: The Heart of Parenting today: https://bit.ly/3fSRoHO