14/10/2018
"One of my biggest regrets from childhood was being embarrassed that my immigrant mother spoke with an accent. I wouldn't just correct her, I would run away from her when she came to pick me up from Elementary school, and disassociate with her during school field trips when she took time out of her busy day to chaperone me. I was going through a complex that most first generation kids go through in America; trying to be like the "proper" English-speaking majority to fit in because different is bad. I was the worst!
One of the greatest things about Cornell is that the sentiment of Any Person, any Study is coveted; our diversity in language is echoed across every dining hall, and in any library. Everyone is genuinely amazed by and appreciative of those who come from different backgrounds. And those with the gift of different kinds of tongues are not afraid to own it, loud and proud! This comfort drew me to my roots.
I wish I could go back and tell my seven-year-old self to never make fun of someone with broken English. It just means they know one more language than you do. Never once did she make fun of my broken Urdu!
Mein Tumse Bohut Pyaar kerti hoon Mama (Love you Mama!)"
-Zehra Jafri '19