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Helping Men Stop Losing Girls Over Text 📱
15+ Years Coaching
37,000+ Students Helped Rich James is the creator of OPTIONS.

The award winning texting course that’s already helped 36,000+ guys turn things around with the girl of their dreams. Rich has over 12 years experience as an International dating coach and after teaming up with Ed Hudson in 2013 created Dating Metrics – a leading resource for men’s dating advice online. After 8+ years of helping clients and running bootcamps around the world, they decided to make their courses available digitally. Their online courses cover every checkpoint in the dating cycle – texting, dating apps, meeting women, first dates, and getting a girlfriend. With OPTIONS you’ll discover how to get smart with dating, develop your social skills, and become better with women.

A 2026 Vervo Study found that on average, people spend 40 minutes thinking about a text to send. AND 73% abandon the tex...
10/28/2026

A 2026 Vervo Study found that on average, people spend 40 minutes thinking about a text to send. AND 73% abandon the text all together!

Your opener has one job: make replying feel easy.”Hey” gives her nothing. “Beautiful” gives her nothing. But one specifi...
10/23/2026

Your opener has one job: make replying feel easy.

”Hey” gives her nothing. “Beautiful” gives her nothing. But one specific detail from her profile — a place, a photo, a moment — gives her a conversation she actually wants to answer. That’s the whole trick: prove you paid attention, then say something only you could say.

Save this before your next DM. Follow Rich James

10/22/2026

Late at night your brain plays the highlight reel — the laughs, the good days — and quietly deletes the reasons it ended. But those reasons didn’t go anywhere. Going back won’t fix them, it’ll just restart the same ending, slower. You’re not attached to who she is. You’re attached to who you imagined she’d be.

Let her stay an ex. Follow Rich James.

10/20/2026

When a guy really likes a girl, he starts editing himself. Agreeing with everything she says. Flooding her with compliments. Turning into whoever he thinks she wants. That’s not attraction — that’s self-abandonment, and she can feel it. The version of you she liked was the one with his own opinions, his own plans, his own life.

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10/20/2026

Don’t lose yourself to be liked.

When a guy really likes a girl, he starts editing himself. Agreeing with everything she says. Flooding her with compliments. Turning into whoever he thinks she wants. That’s not attraction — that’s self-abandonment, and she can feel it. The version of you she liked was the one with his own opinions, his own plans, his own life.

Follow Rich James.

10/14/2026

She waited 3 hours to reply. So you waited 4. Congrats, you’re both losing.

A happn survey of 1,000+ singles found ~40% deliberately match the other person’s reply speed. But 52% say decoding these games mentally exhausts them — and while you were playing the clock, she read your delay as disinterest.
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10/14/2026

She waited 3 hours to reply. So you waited 4. Congrats, you’re both losing.

A happn survey of 1,000+ singles found ~40% deliberately match the other person’s reply speed. But 52% say decoding these games mentally exhausts them — and while you were playing the clock, she read your delay as disinterest.
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10/12/2026

She is losing interest 101:

“Sorry I’ve been superr busyyyy” is girl-code for “you’re not a priority.”

Busy people still text back the people they actually want. The extra letters don’t make it cuter — they make it obvious. When she’s interested, you don’t get excuses. You get replies.

Stop decoding breadcrumbs. Follow Rich James for the signs that actually matter.

10/12/2026

This is a tell sign that she is loosing interest. Bored by the conversation.

“Sorry I’ve been superr busyyyy” is girl-code for “you’re not a priority.”

Busy people still text back the people they actually want. The extra letters don’t make it cuter — they make it obvious. When she’s interested, you don’t get excuses. You get replies.

Stop decoding breadcrumbs. Follow Rich James for the signs that actually matter.

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